Tuesday, August 25, 2009

感情...真是这样吗?

其实有些问题我一直到现在也搞不明白，因为我对于感情的事一向来迟钝且没经验，所以抓破头也想不出答案，所以还是在这里分享吧...一厢情愿是该还是不该？只想付出不求收获是否真的是傻且不值得？恨一个人会比爱一个人容易吗？尝试去追求对方，以获得有情人终成眷属难道是错？

当一个女生是有情人的，或许我们不该与她亲密，因为这会为难为她又或者会破坏她们的感情。但对还是没有情人的女生展开追求相信没什么问题吧？但却因此惹来“闲言闲语”，听了就不爽！

单身的女生拒绝男生时都常说什么我不想要有男朋友；现在不想交男朋友；我是“雷斯边”...还是什么一大堆的借口，害得我们那些长相欠缺“帅”的男生尽吃‘白果’！（包括你啦，捣蛋!一起单身毕业吧！哈哈哈~~~XD）

其实如果真的是单身，为什么就不能给大家一个机会呢？或许真有可能幸福呢？每个人都会说，机会是要自己把握的，却没人说机会是需要有人制造机的，当单身贵族不打开她们的心房，那哪来的机会啊？如果你说你不想要有男朋友，难道你就一辈子单身？不结婚？不生儿育女？简直就是自欺欺人嘛！打死我也不相信！应该是你眼光高，看不起对方吧！那直说就好啦！直接说出他的缺点好让他完完全全死心吧!（别太过分就好，因为现在的建筑物都不矮...）
至于“雷丝边”...还是不讲好了，不然去不了《七点九》（大学团体），怕被扁...
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20 comments:

  1. JasonAugust 25, 2009 at 10:32 PM

    要开始恨一个人,真的很容易,但一旦你恨他,就很难原谅他了.
    可能她就像你一样,有了自己的心上人了?
    还是她完全对你没意思?
    感情这样东西,是从生活中点点滴滴的累计,勉强也是没用的.
    尝试着从另一个角度去看清这事吧!
    至于他人的闲言闲语,就当它是唱歌吧!不要介意那么多.
    加油吧!

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  2. 陌生人的眼睛August 25, 2009 at 11:38 PM

    嗯……读了这一篇，我感觉得到你对谈恋爱的那份渴望。
    其实一个女生会以那些你所说的借口来拒绝一个男生的追求，或许你可以试试往另一方面去想。
    如果你是刚认识她的话，也许你不知道她以前所经历过的一切。
    可能她怕了再次被伤害呢？
    也可能她怕了再次被背叛呢？
    在经历过被伤害与背叛后，是需要时间来调整自己的心绪的。
    至于要用多少时间，就因人而异了。
    不说别人，就说我本身。
    我在我的初恋被背叛了，虽然分手过后我是没有察觉到有任何男生追求我（我朋友在我交了新男朋友之后才跟我说那个时候其实是有人暗恋我，我也才知道，但是却不懂是谁），但是我用了三年才走出那个阴影，过后也才遇见了现在这男朋友，才能够接受他。
    如果在那三年期间被追求的话，我也是会拒绝他的。
    为什么？
    因为我还走不出来，我还放不下，为了大家好，还是不要在一起比较好。
    所以……嗯……我要说的就是这么多了^^

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  3. 邻家男孩...August 25, 2009 at 11:49 PM

    哇！效率那么快？一下子就有意见了？
    其实也没什么意思，只想唠叨下罢了。
    而且很久没新贴了，就趁着感情上有些许波动时发一发贴咯，
    可以发泄一下！

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  4. 陌生人的眼睛August 26, 2009 at 12:09 AM

    哈哈……
    那我就期待你的（下）篇咯~~

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  5. 邻家男孩...August 26, 2009 at 12:34 AM

    没什么好期待的，
    只是一个老人家在发牢骚而已

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  6. 可悲先生August 26, 2009 at 1:25 AM

    charm la u...no use o...
    eh...which girl lai eh!?got pic bo?
    send me her profile...i go check her out!!!
    hahahaha
    oi....i alrd plan to single in, single out liao d la....jz wait u company me nia..hahaha
    btw....how u tackle har d??
    mayb ur technique got problem la....haih...
    got many couple...girl pretty..bt guy kanasai d...
    u go learn more la......haha

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  7. 邻家男孩...August 28, 2009 at 10:22 PM

    可悲先生，你再踩下去366可能就少一个人住咯！

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  8. 邻家男孩...September 1, 2009 at 12:18 PM

    由于时间和懒惰的性格，
    此篇到此为止，
    如有不满...请多多包涵！

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  9. AnonymousSeptember 8, 2009 at 1:00 AM

    hrmmm...seems tat the gal is whom we know izzit??? junior??? hehe..anyways, love is not something tat can be gained through hardworking..no feel is no feel dy...cannot forcing..based on my experiences, i think the gal not interested wif u lor..hrmmm..perhaps u should change ur target dy...try to look at diff side of world, u will discover the difference..

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  10. AnonymousSeptember 8, 2009 at 1:49 AM

    Perhaps you not so understand whats tat gal thinking...Try to understand her situation first before you make any comment about her...everyone have their own difficulty to get over...

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  11. 邻家男孩...September 8, 2009 at 12:36 PM

    May be, but not easy to get understand to other person, so, may be she can give a very strong reason to who she hurt, not just a simple excuse!

    Just like your boss just fire you with a reason 'i do not want you work in our company anymore' with out other reason, then what you feel?

    Communication is important, if the person cant understand you, i think you better let he/she know you more than that.

    May be you are not intentionally to hurt them, but please do not let them 'dead' illegibility...

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  12. AnonymousSeptember 9, 2009 at 5:21 AM

    Did you ask for her reason before?

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  13. 邻家男孩...September 9, 2009 at 5:57 AM

    Do not want have couple is reason or excuse?
    And do not tell other beside that!

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  14. AnonymousSeptember 9, 2009 at 7:12 AM

    There must be a reason for that..
    i think you never ask before..

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  15. 邻家男孩...September 9, 2009 at 7:32 AM

    She dun want give me other reason beside that lah!
    She just said no! then no! final oso no!
    No any specific reason!

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  16. AnonymousSeptember 9, 2009 at 7:46 AM

    U sure? But i think everythings happen for a reason... Maybe someday you will find out the answer...

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  17. 邻家男孩...September 9, 2009 at 8:15 AM

    Wait til which day?
    After she married?
    Why cant tell in time?
    Life no guarantee can til what age,
    Who know may be the guy had been hurt by the girl will pass away at the next day accident.....
    If got chance to communicate, dun let it just pass away...
    At last, thanks ur all comments

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  18. AnonymousSeptember 9, 2009 at 9:34 AM

    If you refuse to wait, just find out the answer yourself.

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  19. 邻家男孩...September 9, 2009 at 11:44 AM

    The way to find out the reason must ask to the gal,
    but i am trying to let go,
    just keep range between lah,
    do not want to make the gal in trouble,
    image will more bad...

    Let this topic end at here lah,
    wish all have a nice life in university.

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  20. AnonymousOctober 3, 2009 at 6:42 AM

    hi, leong here. ya i agree with yr blog. i also same as u. nothing we can do de. we ad try our best, but they dun wan appreciate, we also cant do anything le. they will say now i dun wan hv bf, i dun wan b couple, but, they still gv u a lot of hope. so dunno what they think. if dun wan, juz reject us, dun gv so many reasons...

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